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Fuhrman2408 Regular


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I studied for FAR from the middle of June until I took the exam on Aug 22... during that time, I did a ton of stuff. I didn't really cut down on my social life at all, I just cut down on things that were wasting my time. A few suggestions that helped me have a life and get work done at the same time.
1) Don't waste time when you exercise. I lift 4-5 days per week and a workout used to take me 90 minutes. I cut out all the bs-ing and long rests in between sets and cut my time in the gym down to 50-60 minutes. Doesn't sound like much but adds up to about 3 hours a week.
2) Don't waste time doing nothing. Aka, watching tv -- especially if its something you aren't really interested in.
3) Don't sleep in so late on weekends. I used to sleep in to 11 or noon on Saturdays and Sundays. But now, I wake up around 9 and I'm usually done with my studying for the day by noon. That leaves the rest of my day free if I want to do something. Or I can pick it up again around 4 and study for a while and still be done early enough to go out.
4) Go to bed at a decent hour. I can get a lot more efficient studying done when I'm working on a good night of sleep. I usually get about 8-9 hours now. Sounds like alot but if you go to bed at 10 or 11 and wake up at 7, its pretty easy to get that amount.
Note - I am 23 and living with my girlfriend. She is in dental school so shes studying even more than I am. It makes things a lot easier for me. I don't live near my family, I just moved here so I don't have a lot of friends yet either and I have no kids. So I essentially don't really have many distractions so these minor changes were plenty for me.
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CPAwishful Major Contributor

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I am struggling with balancing time with my family (hubby and a 10 month old baby) and studying and it really wearing down on my marriage. My husband is AWESOME when it comes to watching our baby girl while I study at night after work and on the weekends but he has become tired and impatient. I think a majority of it is not understanding how difficult this test is and all the time needed to prepare.
Does anyone have any tips on balancing study time with family time because I haven't figured it out????
I know I am an extreme studier (more than 20 hours/week I have dedicated to studying) in some people's minds, but I studied just as hard for FAR and BARELY passed. I refuse to get that close again because next time I might not be so lucky!
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sla_mo Regular

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Sounds like a tough situation. I understand being an extreme studier. A suggestion may be to chat with your husband and focus on the fact that if all goes well (due to your dedicated studies), you could be done in just a few short months.
Also, maybe work out a schedule to take a couple hour break over the span of a weekend or even on Saturday & Sunday to give him a chance to get away. 1-2 hours will not destroy all of your hard work.
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arushi_13 Major Contributor

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CPAwishful I kind of am in a similar situation as u are. I started my journey to CPA in Jan 2007 when I first got my credentials evaluated as I have a foreign degree. I was short a substantial amount of accounting units. At that time my son was 1 year old. I still remember how tough it was for me with work and a kid...somehow I survived..there were times I would break down but then somehow gather the courage to start again...Unlike your husband my husband could not help me that much as he had to work long hours and I don't blame him....
I gave my first paper FARE in April 2007 and with God's grace I passed..With great difficulty somehow I managed to give AUD in Oct ...I still have 2 more to go...
My only advice to u... There are times when u will feel helpless and tired..there won't be any friends or any support around u and this journey would seem tired and long and lonesome..but hang in there...There are so many out there like us...maybe in worse situation than u and me....Try to do what u can do and make the best of it...try to get hold of someone who is giving the same papers as u and try to form a study group where each one of u will motivate the other... A good quote I found which really motivated me... TOUGH TIMES DO NOT LAST BUT TOUGH PEOPLE DO.
All the best to u!!!
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arushi_13 Major Contributor

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Correction 1st paper in April 2008.
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hoss792 Newbie

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I can relate. I have a little girl who just turned 1 last Friday. It is a challenge to balance family, work, class for CPA, and studying as well. Here are a few things that I have done to make it easier on my family, and myself.
1. Understanding what my wife is going through. It is not easy to comprehend the time and dedication it takes to pusue the license.
2. I get home from work just after 6 and I don't even think about studying until after my wife and daughter go to sleep, which is around 10. They are the most important things in my life, and I won't let them play second fiddle. I study for about an 1.5 hours in the morning before they get up. Now maybe I am fortunate that I don't need 8 hours of sleep to get through, but you get the idea.
3. Lastly, and for me the most important, I DO NOT study when I am not mentally prepared to study. I cannot absorbed information by blindly reading things over and over. If I can't concentrate on something, it is not worth my time to look at it. It certainly limits my study time, as I am not in the mood to study a lot, but when I am, an hour goes a long way. Also, short, 15 minute study sessions then go play with the little one for 15 minutes.
These are just some things that have worked for me. Of course, my wife is an absolute saint and I could not have done this without her. I hope things work out for you. This is definitely one of the harder things I have done in my life, but I believe the end result will be well worth it. Good luck!
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CPAwishful Major Contributor

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You guys are great.....thanks so much for the responses. Hoss792, thank you so much for the advice. Arushi, GREAT QUOTE!!!
Me and my hubby talked it over last night and I realized that I have been VERY selfish in the way I have gone about it and he needs his time and space away from the baby and from ME for that matter, LOL! I don't know what balance is and I am having to learn it the hard way. When I am focused on something, nothing else matters and I have GOT to get rid of that mind set because I am missing out on precious time with my daughter and quality time with my hubby.
Thanks again guys!! I love this website :-)
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tesfa Regular

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CPAwishful and Arushi,
I don't know what I'd do if I had a child. Balancing life and exam studies is very difficult. My husband supports me a lot but still there is a lot to do outside work and studies. I got my OK to sit in 4/2007 and planned to take all sections by 12/2007 but that was quite a stretch. I couldn't study Sept 07 through March 08 due to health and other issues that came up. It was very difficult to get back into studying but I managed to take FARE and REG over the past summer and I am studying to take my last section in November. My husband is not working right now and we want to spend time together when I get home from work but I always panic and feel down that I am not using my time as I should. I feel guilty everytime I do something else. It is sooooo hard but I have three more weeks of doing this and I am praying so hard to pass AUD at one shot. This journey sucked life out of me for over 16 months now. I want it to be over with God's help. I want my life back.
I don't know if I am capable of giving advice but if I had to do it again, I'd enjoy every break that I get, without feeling guilty, and do it as quickly as possible. My schedule was beyond my control to some extent but if you are able to finish it within a short period of time, do it by all means.
Best of luck to all of you!
Edited by tesfa on 28 Oct 2008 at 14:46
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CPAwishful Major Contributor

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Thanks Tesfa! It is really hard! I am trying to knock it by February so I can take the ethics part in March and be complete and CERTIFIED by May! I keep telling him that it's only a few months and promise to give him a 2nd baby that he keeps hounding me about, LOL.....sometimes it takes some SERIOUS negotiations to get him on board, LOL!
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arushi_13 Major Contributor

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Thanks Tesfa for your best wishes. I have 2 more to go (assuming I pass AUD) and yes u r right in saying that we should get it over with soon. My kid is already 3 and I feel I have not seen him growing up at all...I feel I have missed so much of my kid's childhood and I feel guilty of not taking him to so many places where his age kids go so often..I have missed so much on family time but I just feel deep inside some day it will be all worth it....(crosses fingers).
With just that feeling of HOPE I think no matter how hard the going gets we all must keep on trying till we reach our goal....I mean if we would never have to slog that much how would be know what FUN actually means.
ALL THE VERY BEST TO EVERYONE and KEEP UP THE HARDWORK :)
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